Posts Tagged ‘street approach’

On Being Social

Sunday, May 24th, 2009

I approached two women looking at a menu outside a restaurant a few nights ago.  I wasn’t attracted to either of them…but I asked and teased them about the restaurant and chatted a bit.  “Big Shot” watched.  Then their extremely hot friend joined them, I switched to her, and Big Shot came in and talked to the original two girls (he was smooth and occupied them without a problem).  The Hottie had an amazing personality and we talked about food, culture, and travel, and I got her #.  I had just passed the two girls because I wasn’t into them…I would not have met the hottie.

The lesson here is that being social is fun – you can make friends and expand your social circle, and you can meet their friends as well.  I talk to people everywhere including people who work in stores (and restaurants and bars)…and I make connections and often get free stuff and better treatment that way.

Also, when you are being social, other people notice and want to talk to you as well.

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Street approach: 10pm – light drizzle

Monday, May 4th, 2009

Tonight, Lolth (a cutie, and geeks will get the name reference) called me and asked if her brother could ask me game questions. I said sure and she put him on.  He asked about situational openers.  I was walking up to a corner where an Cutie Latina was waiting for the light to change. There were no cars anywhere and it was a small street.  I passed her and opened situational so bro could hear.

“It’s ok to cross on red if a New Yorker goes first.”

She starts to cross behind me.

“This way…if a car hits you from behind…the NY’er will get away.” :)

We start talking…i ask if she goes to the grad school 2 blocks away (she does) and what she is studying and told her which degree I did there several years ago. (Similar degrees).  I switched her to Spanish (she was Latina) and asked where she was from and used some Spanish Banter. I’ve been to the Spanish city her dad is from…and she’ll be there next week.  Told a little story about the food of the city and qualified her a bit on food.  Then i realized she was at her car (this was all only a 3 block walk so went quickly…maybe 3-4 minutes) and I did all I had time for; I would have liked to SOI (Statement of Intent – tell her she is sexy orsuch) and run more identity stuff.

Moment of truth. ” Hey…you like sangria? We should get sangria when you get back.”  She said yes, so I took her #.

So…Lolth’s brother got a phone demo of game beginning to end. :)

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