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Discovering Knowledge on Listening and Taking Action

Wednesday, August 20th, 2014

Editor’s note: Here is an article a long time friend and coaching partner of mine (Discovering Knowledge) has written for Daygamer.net.

-C

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As a hypnotist and dating coach, I have noticed a number of mistakes that men make when it comes to approaching, talking to and engaging women that they either want to date or seek a more permanent relationship with.

As an example, if you play poker, you know that much of the game is based on your starting cards, but they are not the only or even the most important part of the game.  You have to be aware of your opponent and be able to read the board and the opponent, and delete any extra information that is not of value to you.  At the same time, you want to use all of these things against your opponent.

Imagine the following: you are watching a poker game, the dealer hands out the cards and everyone but 2 players are out.  The dealer puts out the first 3 cards, the first player to act throws out a huge bet, and instantly the 2nd player announces a “raise,” which often means that the player raising feels he has a very strong hand.  The raise is made and the game continues.

The next card shows up, the same 2 players are still in and the first player again throws out a bigger bet than before and instantly, the 2nd player raises again.  At this point, the amount of the pot is very healthy and the final card show up.  The first player to act is down to his last 8,000 chips and throws out 3,000 (which is a respectable bet at this point) and again, the other player raises his bet to put the first player “all in” and possibly ending his tournament.

You can imagine the tension that the first player is under; he has been pushed from the flop, all the way to the final card.  He has a powerful/big hand, but now he is uncertain and the 2nd player acts on that. The 2nd players talks a big game and acts with confidence and certainty.

The first player throws out his hand in disgust and the hand, when paired with the board, was 3 queens and 2 fours.  In poker, this is called a full house and very few hands can beat it.

MEN, pay attention to this.  This is literally what you do when you are trying to get a woman to talk to you, give you her number, go out with you, giveyou a kiss and possible more.  You are behaving like the first player.  You have a very strong hand, but then you talk yourself out of it.  You start to wonder about her, why is she interested in you?   What if you saw a prettier woman?  What if…

Here is some advice that has worked with hundreds of men.  Once you focus on the value that you have and the needs of women, you have become the 2nd player in our example and you are no longer concerned about what the “dealer,” “the universe” and “life” throws your way.  You understand that you take your skills and use them.  Will you always win?  No.  Will you win more often than you are winning now?  Yes!

First:  Expect to win!  Here is a secret that few men act on.

Women who want men, like men.

If you were not aware of this fact, go back and reread it.  You have a huge advantage in that women like you, not just as the person that you are, but simply because you are a man and they crave that male energy.  I don’t mean this “like” the way men are sexually focused on women.  Women really want to know you, get what you are about, why you act this way or how you feel about this or that.  This is part of why women drive men crazy with wanting to talk.  They need to get more of what they like, sound familiar?

Second:  Have something to share from your life.

I know that you have access to books and vids that are full of “openers” and “negs” and much more.  When you memorize lines and don’t add your personal energy to them, they come across as lines.  Cuisine and I have been teaching men how to use “themes” of attraction to have the stories of your life ready to share with the women you are interested in.

I use hypnotic language patterns.  These are secret patterns that have been used/banned in some areas because of how powerful they can be when used correctly.  Bill Clinton, Barak Obama and many politicians use these types of patterns in their speeches because they work and they control the masses.  You too, can now learn and use these types of patterns to create the intimacy, connection and hopefully a long lasting romance.  Please don’t expect you to have this information available to you, unless you take one my workshops, classes or become a private client.

Third:

Listen, listen, listen.  It’s not what you say that will get you the date, it’s how well you listen to her.  One of the most annoying characteristics of humans is the ability to hear a person’s name and instantly forget it.  How do you feel when you tell someone your name and they start calling you “bud” or “friend” or some other word that says, “I forgot your name and don’t care enough to ask you to repeat it”?  When she tells you details about her life and you don’t hear them or you simply forget them, she will feel most likely feel that you are just trying to manipulate her or worse.

Remember this the next time you are talking to a woman, listen.  She might just go out with you simply because you listened.  By the way, listening is done with your ears, your eyes and your body.  Pay attention to any hints or suggestions your intuition throws your way.  If you feel the moment to hold her hand is there, go for it.  If you want to ask for her number, do it.

To finish the poker story, the 2nd player never showed his hand but announced that he had a “king high” which if it was accurate, was a loosing hand all the way from the start.  When you start the conversation, you already have a strong hand.  It is up to you to either close the deal or allow the fear of the “what ifs” to keep you from the happiness and the woman you deserve.

The only way you can take a random conversation from a meeting to a relationship is to listen and take action!  Your most powerful asset as a man is your ability to be competitive and go for what you want.  Most women crave that in the man they will eventually give themselves to.

You can reach me at discoveringknowledge@yahoo.com with any questions or to clarify any of the information above.

Oscar (AKA Discovering Knowledge)
Hypnotist and Dating Coach

Upcoming Classes: A Men Class, A Women’s Class, And Men’s In-Field Boot Camp.

Sunday, April 24th, 2011

Edit (June 2, 2011):

June 15th is next men’s class. Through Pros In The City and “lair” code still saves you $5.

-Cuisine
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I have a couple of spots left in my monthly men’s in-field (boot camp) program for May.  Also, I’m doing a couple of sit down classes with Discovering Knowledge.  They are listed below:

-Cuisine

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The code “lair” saves you $5 on the 2 Pros In The City classes below:

 

. Meeting Women: How to Approach and Attract Women and Get the Women You Really Want to Date (Men Only) Monday, May 2, 2011

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Price: $30.00 if purchased by 5 p.m. Friday, April 29
Date: Monday, May 2, 2011 from 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM.
Location: Sixth & I Community Center
606 I Street, NW
Washington, DC 20001

*Enter through Sixth & I Community Center adjacent to Historic Synagogue
Within walking distance from the Gallery Place / Chinatown Metro station

Discover some of the secrets of Approaching and Attracting Women (and how to keep the ones YOU want).

Meet “Tony’” the kind of guy that you can fully identify with. He has a good life, a fun attitude, a “regular Joe” in most ways. He has a bright future, a lot of friends – but no special girl in his life. Tony never has plans, but hopes that a friend will call and invite him to something or give him ideas of what to do. Tony might go to a bar, but he will just sit there moaning about how he is lousy at meeting the women he craves.

Meet “Mike’” the kind of guy that you might fully identify with. He has a good life, a fun attitude, a “regular Joe” in most ways. He has a bright future, a lot of friends, and he has a special girl in his life. When people see the two of them talking, they always seem to be laughing; when they go out, their friends are jealous of this connection. All in all, they have found a level of chemistry and fun that most people would love to experience.

Meet “Ken,” the kind of guy that few people can fully identify with (and many wish they could). He has a good life, a fun attitude, and is a “regular Joe” in most ways. He has a bright future, and a lot of friends, but no special girl in his life. Every time you see Ken, he is with a new woman or a couple of them. Ken is always saying the right things, touching the right subjects, and all in all, he is having the time of his life.

Which man most closely resembles you? Which one do you want to be? During our conversation, we are going to give you a “map” so that you can plan your path to success. What does it take to connect with women in the ways that they want? Are you familiar with the four types of women and how to best attract each of them?

Our presenters are masters of seduction. They have studied, learned and helped both men and women to understand each other and to create the kinds of relationships that both want. Imagine yourself at the beach with the woman that would make you happy. Can you see yourself walking into a party with a girl in each arm? Do you want to have a long term relationship and discover ways in which you can attract the right type of woman?

This program is designed to help men get clarity in how to best start conversations that women will find compelling, magnetic and almost impossible to walk away from. You will learn some of the traits that make men irresistible to women and how to highlight those qualities in yourself even if you are just out of school, just out of a divorce or just plain terrible in social settings.

Do you remember one of your lady friends saying the following about some other man, “he is so sexy” or “hmmm, there is just something about him”? How great will it be when women are saying the same thing about you? How will you handle the success you notice once you are able to start conversations with women at will? What changes will you also notice after you have gained success at attracting women and created the kind of social life that you know you can have (because you have put into practice what we have taught you)?

Don’t miss this class, guys … it will change your life if you put it into action!

Absolutely no food or drink allowed in this venue.

When: Monday, May 2, 2011 from 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM.

Where: Sixth & I Community Center
606 I Street, NW
Washington, DC 20001

*Enter through Sixth & I Community Center adjacent to Historic Synagogue
Within walking distance from the Gallery Place / Chinatown Metro station

Price: $30.00 if purchased by 5 p.m. Friday, April 29

 

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Meeting Men: How To Get the Man You Really Want to Date (Women Only) Monday, May 16, 2011

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Price: $30.00 if purchased by 5 p.m. Friday, April 29
Date: Monday, May 16, 2011 from 7:00 PM – 9:30 PM.
Location: Sixth & I Community Center
606 I Street, NW
Washington, DC 20001

*Enter through Sixth & I Community Center adjacent to Historic Synagogue
Within walking distance from the Gallery Place / Chinatown Metro station

Back when mom was young, and “The Rules” seemed to work, there were time-honored ways for a lady to attract a great man. Tradition, small towns, and coy behavior were the tools that savvy grandmothers handed down. But, with those times long faded, what is a big city woman to do?

Our experts have those answers and more! The speakers of this introductory seminar have decoded modern society’s social cues to allow women to successfully navigate the rocky waves of single-dom to the shores of dating bliss.

This evening you will learn these VITAL skills:

· How to create a healthy, sexy, and confident image

· How to begin a conversation with a man you choose

· How to stop choosing the “wrong guy”

· How to use the “LAW OF ATTRACTION” to kick start your search

· How to find the men you want in your life by tweaking your life: “The google Principle”

· How to employ the “Rule of Clusters” and body language secrets to increase your approachability

· How to talk to men: Male Communication 101

Our team is trained in various aspects of social dynamics including body language, event planning, hypnosis, sales and dating.

Our curriculum is designed to give you both practical and actionable ways of improving your dating life as well as insight into the male mind.

Ladies, the strategies you will learn here are real. Real men telling you what works, including insights gained working with female friends and clients—secrets will be shared with you that make dating successful. Our system is successful because it is based on teaching you how to make your inner beauty shine. Imagine discovering the secrets that when put to use will make YOU irresistible to the right man! Invest in your future by joining us for this life altering event!

What women who attended are saying:

“Fun, entertaining and thought provoking” -Gail M.

“I especially like the exercises & techniques we could try” -Joy D.

“You guys are outstanding!” -Karen R.

About our speakers: Our first speaker is a Dating Coach who teaches how to begin and improve conversations and create positive impressions. He also specializes in improving your body language and teaching you how to read other people’s body language and ascertain their level of interest.

Our second speaker is a Master hypnotist who helps both men and women clear out their past failures and create a more exciting and fun life. His focus is on helping you live the life of your dreams now. His clients love the way he uses NLP, Hypnosis and other energy based modalities to propel them forward.

Absolutely no food or drink allowed in this venue.

When: Monday, May 16, 2011 from 7:00 PM – 9:30 PM.

Where: Sixth & I Community Center
606 I Street, NW
Washington, DC 20001

*Enter through Sixth & I Community Center adjacent to Historic Synagogue
Within walking distance from the Gallery Place / Chinatown Metro station

Price: $30.00 if purchased by 5 p.m. Friday, April 29

Discovering Knowledge & Cuisine (me): Upcoming Speaking Engagement

Thursday, December 16th, 2010

Discovering Knowledge and I are the speakers for the below men only prosinthecity.com event. Use the code “lair” to save $5. BTW, we also have a women only class in early February, and the same discount code works for it.

-Cuisine

Meeting Women: How to Approach and Attract Women and Get the Women You Really Want to Date! (Men Only)

Tuesday, January 25, 2011
Price: $30.00 if purchased by 5 p.m. Friday, December 17
Date: Tuesday, January 25, 2011 from 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM.

Location: MOCA DC Galleries
1054 31st St NW
in Canal Square
Washington, DC 20007-4403

Closest Metro – Foggy Bottom

Discover some of the secrets of Approaching and Attracting Women (and how to keep the ones YOU want).

Meet “Tony’” the kind of guy that you can fully identify with. He has a good life, a fun attitude, a “regular Joe” in most ways. He has a bright future, a lot of friends – but no special girl in his life. Tony never has plans, but hopes that a friend will call and invite him to something or give him ideas of what to do. Tony might go to a bar, but he will just sit there moaning about how he is lousy at meeting the women he craves.

Meet “Mike’” the kind of guy that you might fully identify with. He has a good life, a fun attitude, a “regular Joe” in most ways. He has a bright future, a lot of friends, and he has a special girl in his life. When people see the two of them talking, they always seem to be laughing; when they go out, their friends are jealous of this connection. All in all, they have found a level of chemistry and fun that most people would love to experience.

Meet “Ken,” the kind of guy that few people can fully identify with (and many wish they could). He has a good life, a fun attitude, and is a “regular Joe” in most ways. He has a bright future, and a lot of friends, but no special girl in his life. Every time you see Ken, he is with a new woman or a couple of them. Ken is always saying the right things, touching the right subjects, and all in all, he is having the time of his life.

Which man most closely resembles you? Which one do you want to be? During our conversation, we are going to give you a “map” so that you can plan your path to success. What does it take to connect with women in the ways that they want? Are you familiar with the four types of women and how to best attract each of them?

Our presenters are masters of seduction. They have studied, learned and helped both men and women to understand each other and to create the kinds of relationships that both want. Imagine yourself at the beach with the woman that would make you happy. Can you see yourself walking into a party with a girl in each arm? Do you want to have a long term relationship and discover ways in which you can attract the right type of woman?

This program is designed to help men get clarity in how to best start conversations that women will find compelling, magnetic and almost impossible to walk away from. You will learn some of the traits that make men irresistible to women and how to highlight those qualities in yourself even if you are just out of school, just out of a divorce or just plain terrible in social settings.

Do you remember one of your lady friends saying the following about some other man, “he is so sexy” or “hmmm, there is just something about him”? How great will it be when women are saying the same thing about you? How will you handle the success you notice once you are able to start conversations with women at will? What changes will you also notice after you have gained success at attracting women and created the kind of social life that you know you can have (because you have put into practice what we have taught you)?

Don’t miss this class; it will change your life if you put it into action!

MOCA DC – Directions from M & 31st St NW:

First, get to the corner of M & 31st St NW.
Go 1 block toward water – alley on right, directly across from Paper Moon restaurant.
Continue to underground parking entrance on right. $10 parking all night after 5 pm.
1054 Address is to a Courtyard (Canal Square). Enter from underground parking garage entrance or slightly past that to opening on right.
Enter courtyard and go to rear.
MOCA DC is on the right – 202.342.6230


Parking

Underground Parking Garage – $10 all night after 5
Street parking is available on 31st, Thomas Jefferson, 30th or 29th
Also on 31st Street – on side streets of N, O & P – some is metered, some is not

When: Tuesday, January 25, 2011 from 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM.

Where: MOCA DC Galleries
1054 31st St NW
in Canal Square
Washington, DC 20007-4403

Closest Metro – Foggy Bottom

Price: $30.00

Discovering Knowledge (DK)

Tuesday, May 26th, 2009

So, DK is a Master Hypnotist (I like to joke that it is because he says so) and I was once in the room when he taught how to do the October Man NLP sequence (the light version – not the dangerous one).  While I was in the room and I myself will never use the sequence…I’m excited that the 500MB video was just made available.  I downloaded a copy, and can watch it, and get a better understanding of how it works.  And…its DK presenting!  

I’m tempted to invite him to where I’m cooking tonight (a friend’s house) but its “Chili Pepper Night” and he doesn’t eat spicy food.