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The Global Pickup Conference Will Be In DC In March!

Tuesday, January 17th, 2012

Edit  2/2: Price goes up from $300 to $400  tomorrow!

Edit: 1/20: Price goes up from $200 to $300 at midnight tonight (1/21)!

-Cuisine

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I was a speaker and infield daygame coach at this conference last year.  Here it is again!

The Global Pickup Conference (Kings of Pickup), Washington DC (Georgetown) During The Weekend Of March 23th – 25th, 2012

INCLUDED WITH ADMISSION

  • 2 Days Of In Class Training
  • 1 Full Day Infield Training
  • 100 Page Routine Manual (Worth Over $100)
  • VIP Forum Access
  • VIP Video Vault Access Over 10 Hours of Video Infield & Training Footage (Worth Over $300)
  • Free Podcast Subscription
  • FREE DC Guide
  • FREE Raffle Ticket We will be raffling off FREE Products & Training Throughout the conference.
  • Discounts on Hotels & Food
  • And Much More…

Speakers:

Speer

Vince Kelvin

Brad P.

Ross Jeffries

David Wygant

Erika Awakening

And More…

Buy tickets here. It is currently only $299, but the price jumps to $399 soon–buy now.

Free Banter Deck

Monday, August 22nd, 2011

Pickup 101 is giving their Banter Deck away for free on their website, so I’m sharing the link with you. It’s funny that this banter deck’s copy write is from 2006, since it is something I’d expect them to continuously update. Then again, I haven’t heard much about them in the last few years. Regardless, grab the deck for free.

Neil Strauss Book Signings: New York, DC, Etc.

Sunday, March 13th, 2011

Neil Strauss’ U.S. Everyone Loves You When You’re Dead Book Tour:

NEW YORK
March 16, 2011 @ 7:00PM
BOOK COURT
163 Court Street
Brooklyn, NY 11201

WASHINGTON, DC
March 17, 2011 @ 6:30PM
BARNES & NOBLE
555 12th Street NW
Washington, DC 20004

CHICAGO
March 19, 2011 @ 7:00PM
BOOK CELLAR
4736-38 N Lincoln Avenue
Chicago, IL 60625

BOSTON/BROOKLINE
March 20 @ 6pm
Brookline Booksmith
279 Harvard Avenue
Brookline, MA 02446

AUSTIN
March 21 @ 5pm
BookPeople
603 North Lamar
Austin, TX 78074

SEATTLE
March 22, 2011 @ 7:00PM
UNIVERSITY BOOKSTORE
4326 University Way
Seattle, WA 98105

BERKELEY
March 23, 2011 @ 7:00 PM
BOOKS INC
1760 Fourth Street
Berkeley, CA 94710

SAN FRANCISCO
March 24, 2011 @ 7:30 PM
BOOKSMITH
1644 Haight Street
San Francisco, CA 94117

LOS ANGELES
March 25, 2011 @ 7:30 PM
BARNES & NOBLE
10850 West Pico Boulevard
Los Angeles, CA 90064
(followed by a book release
party to be announced soon)

SAN DIEGO
March 28 @ 7 p.m.
BARNES & NOBLE
Mira Mesa MarketCenter
10775 Westview Parkway
San Diego, CA 92126

Inner/outer/Social Game In Action. DC Fit Week.

Wednesday, March 9th, 2011

In my inbox:

DC Fit Week is March 21-25, 2011. It is concentration of three areas: physical, mental, and financial health.  Here is the schedule of free (mind, body, and finance) fitness classes. Below is info on 2 of their Happy Hours.  Go to some events, meet some people (women).  Go to some classes and improve yourself. :)

-Cuisine
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DC Fit Week: Kickoff Happy Hour
Monday, March 21, 2011 from 5:00 PM – 8:00 PM (ET)
Washington, DC

The DC Fit Week Kickoff Happy Hour is a Fit happy hour at America’s first FIT Restaurant and Bar, FunXion. Enjoy a variety of artfully prepared superfood-enhanced dishes and products that are low in calories and rich in nutrients.

DC Fit Week is sponsoring Stop Colon Cancer Now that night & putting together a raffle to raise money for their incredible organization. Bring cash so you can donate & win great prizes. If you’d like to donate prizes, contact us.

WHERE: FunXion
WHEN: March 21, 2011 5-8pm
HAPPY HOUR SPECIALS: TBD
FOOD: TBD

RAFFLE PRIZES:
Be the first to donate!

SPONSORS:
Listed shortly!

ADMITTANCE: You will not be admitted unless you RSVP. If you are unable to attend after RSVP’ing, please contact us so we can remove you from the list. We expect a packed event.

Sign up for classes, workshops, and events or get coupons at www.dcfitweek.com
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DC Fit Week: *Decompression* Happy Hour sponsored by Monavie
Tuesday, March 22, 2011 from 6:00 PM – 8:00 PM (ET)
Washington, DC

Who doesn’t need to decompress after a long day at work, a long workout pushing yourself running/strength training/yoga/cardio or just because….

DC Fit Week is well underway, why not come and enjoy some tasty drinks created just for this event. Join us in the Executive Lounge at Lounge 201, enjoy healthy cocktails and get your DRINK ON, all while having a good time. What’s a week of fitness without being able to wind down. So come hang while we taste some awesome mixes like the Amazon Bliss or a Monajito.

WHERE: Lounge 201
WHEN: Tuesday, March 22, 2011 6pm-9pm

Happy Hour Specials: $6 Monavie cocktails and martinis

$5 House red/white wine by the glass
$4 Select bottled beer

Raffle: We will raffle off a bottle of Monavie m(mun).

SPONSOR: MonaVie

Good Article On How To Be Persuasive

Saturday, March 5th, 2011

Why People Listen to Chris Christie (by Andy Goodman, free-range thinking (March 2011)

Even if you dislike the New Jersey governor’s politics, you have to respect the way he delivers his message.

Given a choice between increasing taxes on New Jersey’s millionaires or reaching into the pockets of teachers, Governor Chris Christie has gone after the teachers. I could dislike him for that alone, but when you throw in his views on gay marriage (against), a woman’s right to choose (against), and environmental protection (not if it’s bad for business), I really can’t stand the guy. So when I see Christie speak live on TV or recorded in clips on YouTube, why do I find him so darned likable?

Apparently, I’m not alone in this. Christie is a rapidly rising star in the Republican Party and his name keeps surfacing in discussions of the 2012 presidential race. Christie flatly denies any interest, and he does so with humor and humility, which only makes him more likable. In fact, whatever subject he tackles, Christie regularly demonstrates mastery of three techniques essential for delivering a tough message:

Be a person first.
Audiences don’t separate the messenger from his message. If they

New Jersey Governor Chris Christie

don’t like the speaker, they’re probably not going to like (or even listen to) what he has to say. Christie clearly understands this, so he frequently talks about himself or his family to establish a connection with his audience before getting into potentially sticky issues.

In the YouTube clip “Chris Christie on His Style,” a voter chastises the governor for his brusque, often confrontational approach. Christie offers this reply: “I have an Irish father, and I had – before she passed away six years ago – a Sicilian mother. Now, for those of you who have been exposed to the combination of Irish and Sicilian, it has made me not unfamiliar with conflict. In my house, my parents left nothing unsaid.” Listen to how Christie delivers this line (during the first minute of this clip) and you’ll see why the audience laughs and, more importantly, how Christie became a person in that room before he had to be a politician.

Connect on an emotional level.
There’s a reason politicians talk about the battle for “hearts and minds” and not for “minds and hearts.” Human beings respond emotionally to incoming information even before their brains are fully engaged. If our emotions are negative (e.g., anger, distrust, fear), our brains will find ways to ignore or discount the incoming information. In short: we believe what we want to believe.

Christie understands this, too, and he often uses humor to emotionally connect with his audiences before asking them to seriously consider a controversial proposition. Forced to explain why he believes New Jersey’s teachers should contribute part of their salaries to cover health care benefits, Christie manages to be both funny and persuasive in this clip, aptly titled “This is the crap I have to hear.”

Tell stories.
In a recent profile on Christie, New York Times political columnist Matt Bai recounted how the governor used a story to explain a fundamental problem with his state’s insurance plans:

When he was a federal prosecutor, Christie told the audience, he got to choose from about 100 health-insurance plans, ranging from cheap to quite expensive. But as soon as he became governor, the “benefits lady” told him he had only three state plans from which to choose, Goldilocks-style; one was great, one was modestly generous and one was rather miserly. And any of the three would cost him exactly 1.5 percent of his salary.

“You’re telling me,” Christie said he told the woman, feigning befuddlement, “that no matter which one I pick – the good one, or the O.K. one, or the bad one – I’m going to pay 1 1/2 percent of my salary?” And she said, “Yes.”

“And I said, then everyone picks the really good one, right? And she said, ‘Ninety-six percent of state employees pick the really good one.’”

“Which led me to have two reactions,” Christie told the crowd. “First, bring those other 4 percent to me! Because when I have to start laying people off, they’re the first ones!” His audience burst into near hysterics. “And the second reaction was, of course I would choose the best plan,” Christie said, “and so would you.”

[Excepted from "How Chris Christie Did His Homework," The New York Times, February 27, 2011]
Christie also abides by a basic rule of narrative: a strong protagonist needs an equally powerful antagonist to make the story interesting. At the same time, he is very careful when choosing antagonists. In his campaign to have teachers cover a portion of their health care costs, Christie is careful not to make the teachers themselves his antagonist. Instead, he casts their union in that role.

“The union collects $730 a year from every teacher and school employee in the union in mandatory dues,” Christie told one audience in New Jersey. “And if you don’t want to join the union, here’s your option: you can be out, [but] you pay 85% of $730 to be out. It’s like the Hotel California, you know? You can check in anytime you like, but you can never leave.” (Click here to see the entire clip, “Not About Teachers” on YouTube.)

In a tribute to Ronald Reagan last February, former U.S. Senator Fred Thompson wrote, “His reputation as The Great Communicator boils down to three basic traits: he was simple; he was clear; he was sincere.” Christie displays those traits as well, and even if he’s not running in 2012, he’s already vying for the title of Next Great Communicator. Those who oppose his agenda and have tough messages of their own to convey would do well to learn from his success.

 

Article About PUA Conference I Spoke/Coached At

Monday, February 7th, 2011

From here.

“On an Orange Line train bound for Vienna last year, Matt struck out twice in a row. The second woman, especially, had terrible body language, and he knew it. When she plays with her hair, it’s a good thing. When she rubs the back of her neck, it’s a very bad thing. He was getting the neck.

As Matt got off at his stop and walked toward the exit, a man in thick glasses stopped him. “Do you want to know what happened there?”

So began Cuisine’s tutelage of Matt. (Matt and Cuisine, like several other conference attendees, would not offer their full names for fear the image of the pickup community would have repercussions in their professional lives.) They later went to the DMV together, and Matt marveled at Cuisine’s ability to pick up two women there; the four of them had lunch. Matt says Cuisine has improved his social skills in all interactions, not just with women he wants to seduce.”

Knack Quote

Thursday, January 20th, 2011

I’m not commenting on it, but I will share something Knack said today:

“If women want to get married, dont be a bitch, dont go for assholes and put their chubby ass on a treadmill. Don’t go for guys that are BLATENTLY not long term material. They all seem to and everyone sees it but them.”

Comedy Sportz (In Ballston) Auditions

Friday, January 14th, 2011

I know many of you study or want to study improv.  Here is your chance to try out as a performer at Comedy Sports.Humor IS an attraction trigger and you’ll be the “Hired Gun.”

-Cuisine

TO PREPARE FOR AUDITIONS. . .

~ see a ComedySportz show
~ see a Blue Show

~ bring a photo of yourself (headshots are not necessary, but welcome)
~ bring a print out of your Name, Email, Cell phone (or best phone to reach you) and any stage performance or training experience you have. You will also be given a paper on which to write down your previous stage and training experience if you don’t have a resume.
~ dress comfortably so that your clothing won’t restrict your movement.

Updates on Classes and the Conference

Tuesday, January 4th, 2011

Discount code “daygamer” for the DC PUA conference percentage raised to 20% off:

http://www.daygamer.net/2010/12/08/speers-conference-last-weekend-in-january-in-dc/

Also, I am teaching a co-ed internet class 1/19 in DC, $25.  It includes me critiquing a profile (and half a dozen pictures) of yours as long as you send them to me at least a few days before the class; that alone is worth more than the $25 (without even counting the class itself).

I also still have a  women’s  class Jan. 10th & men’s class  Jan. 25th.  The Feb. 8  women’s class  through Pros in the City (Discount Code “lair”) has been rescheduled to 1/20. I mentioned a couple of these in a separate post.

And, I have several 3 hour in-field bootcamps scheduled.

For more info, contact me at Cuisine@daygamer.net.

Millionaire Matchmaker

Friday, December 31st, 2010

I’ve watching Patti Stanger’s show, Millionaire Matchmaker. What do I think? I like the show.

I feel her on the clients who think they are buying a product and that they are the boss. They actually buying a service from a specialist, and they need to listen to the specialist in order to get them out of their nonworking dating pattern. Patti usually throws a “test” in…which is a girl or guy that matches what the client usually goes for…and is therefore the wrong match. I felt like she gave one of the female clients too many “tests” and not enough appropriate choices.

Some of her female clients are particularly difficult because they “masculine energy” that makes them successful business people works against them in love (since they don’t want feminine men as matches). Also, many of them are just not ready to truly put love as a priority in their lives. As such, her service, seems to often not work very well for the female clients, but I won’t blame Patty for it. She probably knows most of those women will fail…even after spending 50k each…but it isn’t Patti’s fault if they are not ready or will not listen.

Patty is very good at reading people and body language, and has some good experts that she can call upon for a variety of specialties (fashion, counseling, astrology, etc.).  She also gets some very attractive women for her clients.

Some memorable moments:

  • A female client brought her gay bodyguard on the date.
  • A client brought his hot female assistant (who Patti thinks he is sleeping with) on the date.
  • A client brought his male friends on a date and they (himself included) proceeded to get drunk, while his date didn’t drink. they also pressured her to kiss him in front of everyone.  Patty warned him not to bring friends and has a rule that people should not drink more than 2 drinks.
  • A female client brought her date on a “Toxic Tour of LA.” Patti tried to talk her out of it.
  • A (gay) client told his date what he could and could not order from the menu (no read meat).
  • A client told his date that he (the client) doesn’t like people.

Weaknesses:

Some of her male clients are socially awkward and need help actually getting better with women..and that is something that takes time. They need help hunting/fishing and dating before they are ready for a true match. That is where someone like me comes in…as I show men how men get their personalities across in an attractive way and teach them both how to improve their body language and how to read women’s body language and attraction signals.  She does often give them good advice about how to act on their dates…but she can’t cover everything, and some of these people really do need to be taught “how to fish.”

She isn’t always clear. She told a client to “stop being creepy” without explaining how. She tells people (men) at her casting calls to come to the mixer looking hot without explaining how…although she is much clearer with the women (fix your teeth, wear a wig, cover your boobs up, show your legs).

She should not yell at her staff (and they should not yell at each other) in front of other people.

She is much harsher on people at her casting calls than necessary. Sometimes she is downright mean.

New Episodes are on Bravo 9pm Tuesdays, EST. (Update: the current season is now over.)