Archive for August, 2009

Social Proof From Hired Guns

Sunday, August 23rd, 2009

I can’t stress the importance if vibing with people who work in stores and restaurants and bars, especially ones you frequent normally.  Every time I enter the mall, I give the women at a particular kiosc a hug.  I also know my servers in restaurants and hired (of various types) guns in bars.  It’s social proof, but it also opens them and their present and future coworkers (and even customers) up as targets.  That is how I # closed that Dead Sea products girl, and they are some of the toughest hired guns out there.  That is also how I # closed a kiosk employee the same day, since her coworker knew me.

Oh, “call back humor” (inside jokes) works on hired guns. 🙂

Also, I get a lot of free stuff and discounts from vibing with hired guns and being a regular.

Updates

Monday, August 17th, 2009

I’ve gotten 20 or so numbers in the last week. Keeping track of them is a challenge.  These numbers included 5 hired guns, 4 of which were in or around a mall.  One was one of the dreaded “Dead Sea” girls (this one is an Hb9.5) who are (generally Israeli and) trained to give you mixed signals until you buy one.  Yes, these girls are near impossible to game…but i had also “drive by” bantered her once about 6 months ago and she remembered me.  She opened me this time.  Also number closed a hired gun half my age but she wasn’t as interesting as a whole package, so I’m not calling her.  Actually, the way this week is going (in a good way), I may not call any of them, and I’m fine with that.

Recently, I approached a cyclist (she had a helmet and backpack) in a supermarket.  She was selecting peaches. I accused her of entering the supermarket and pretending to buy peaches to get out of the heat, and told her it would take her 2 hours to buy 2 peaches.  Turned out to be an Eastern European grad student, hb8.5 or 9.  When I went for the number she scanned me quickly to decide if she was interested physically and said “Yes, I’ll give you my number.”

Shit Tests

Tuesday, August 4th, 2009

A lot of people are annoyed when a girl throws crazy tests at them, and they think they aren’t doing well.  No.  She is testing you to see if you are real – you need to pass those tests.  Conventional wisdom (Style, Mystery) is to dodge those shit tests:

Her: “I give great blowjobs.”  You: “Respect!”

Now, that’s fine, and sometimes you have to do that…but I generally bust the shit out of them for shit testing me.  I’d probably tell the girl that we have a snowman in the back she can practice on…and that he is frigid but has a big carrot.  I’ve never used that one.

Example (she is taller than me):  “I have never dated a man shorter than me.”  I have several answers to this…one of which is telling them that they are just too short for me and need to wear taller heels. I have banter I use with that as well…that is basically role playing.   Basically i subcommunicate that i do not have hieght issues, which is what they are screening me for. And yes, I’ve dated girls from 4’9-5’11.

Why did this come up.  This weekend I went on a date with a striking black woman who lived in europe for a long time…and she shit tested me to high hell at the first venue (we bounced from a dive bar to dive restaurant).  “American men are big babies. “White men like Asian girls because they have no curves – they really want boys.” “I have never dated a man shorter than me.”  “I like manly men”

Plus…she started smoking (made her reposition and blow the other way).

I handled all her shit tests…and by the end she was really into me.  They want men who can handle and throw their crap back at them.  They want to know you are real.   That can mean being nonreactive or it can mean busting them to high hell.

Daygame lecture August 8th

Monday, August 3rd, 2009

I am giving a Daygame lecture Saturday evening 8/8 in Washington DC, and still have some open spots.  Topics will probably be opening, kino, and different daygame environments.

If you want to RSVP for the event, email me at cuisine@daygamer.net.  The email forwarder seems a bit wonky, so if you don’t get a response, comment in this blog.

Also, feel free to contact me regarding coaching services, whether in-field, lecture, or help with your material and fundamentals of game (especially attraction).

The 15th ad 16th will be my daygame bootcamp, although I may do some coaching 8/9.  Spots are available.  Contact me for rates.

-Cuisine